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Category: Relationship

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Underrating People: Here is why you should stop!

I have never met a man who was not my superior in some particular.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson Life and nature are configured to exist in steps and layers. They operate like that because the stage we are today either lifts us up or drags us down, and the layer we are opening today may…
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Is your marriage healthy and happy?

Is your marriage healthy and happy? If you’re not paying close attention, it’s easy to miss the signs that your partner is secretly dissatisfied or unhappy in your marriage. Relationship experts and marriage counsellors can offer insight into how to tell if your loved one is hiding feelings of sadness or discontent from you. They’re…
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Not sex, not arguments, no complaints, just talk!

Maybe all your marriage need is for you two to talk; not sex, not arguments, no complaints, just talk! “We need to talk” he texted his wife. She wondered what was wrong, men rarely use that “We need to talk” line. “Is everything alright?” she asked. “Let’s talk when we get home” he texted back.…
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I’m A Broken Woman

‘I am a broken woman’ is a poem explaining the act of child abuse and molestation which is highly rampant. The poet wrote about a 13-year-old girl’s experience. You say you care But you don’t That’s why you’re not here but there You said you’d change but you won’t Every night since I was five…
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Should I take her back or look else where?

We spent years together in college, Unfortunately she took in, It was our second year in school She is so beautiful, caring, homely but a bit tempered She loves me no doubt And I loved her for real When her dad heard about the pregnancy Which I never denied, The anger in him knowing am…
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4 Tips on How to Speak to Your Spouse

It’s not easy to be on your best behavior after an exhausting day at work or at home with your kids, but it’s not okay to react harshly to the one you love. Here are things to keep in mind that will help you take the high road and strengthen your relationship for years to…
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What does true love require?

Our popular but late Michael Jackson sang and I quote, “love is magical”, oh yes he is right. But I wish he had stayed a little longer to experience love further, so that he can understand that love is more than the magic. Love in not the combination of kisses and hugs; because even Jesus…
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Don’t lose yourself for anyone

Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person…
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7 vital reasons you should get your 4-year old a drawing kit

There are various forms of play for children. As your child grows from being a little crying baby to become a crawling and walking lad, his/her play sense is bound to change with your help. Sometimes, your child will be absorbed in a make-believe world of his own and won’t need your involvement.  Between the…
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19 ways to say no to sex when you are not ready

Almost every girl has difficulty in saying “no” at some time and finds herself on a date having sexual contact when she doesn’t really want it. There are lots of reasons why girls find it difficult to come out and say “no” firmly, the most common being that they don’t want to hurt the boy’s…
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Abusive relationship: How I became miserable

My ex and I had a wonderful relationship has friends. He was the best friend I had till we got married. The hate was unexplainable. I thought maybe he was broke; I invested in his business, yet I was termed bossy.

Solving relationship arguments without a crack

A relationship is one of the most blissful experiences one can ever have. Relationship with humans – family, friends, colleagues, the spouse can be very complicated. This explains the human difference and the need for tolerance in a bit of finding peace. There has been no secret ingredient to a spicy relationship than understanding, acceptance,…
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5 Signs that Shows Your Dog is Lonely

Dogs are lively animals, there are five signs that shows your dog might be lonely. We all want our dogs to live full, happy lives, but sometimes our jam-packed schedules and busy routines can sadly result in our pups feeling lonely and isolated. Dogs’ personalities are as individual as humans’, so their reasons for feeling…
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No one is love perfect

At first, one would think the easiest thing in life should be love. Because we were told that love is everything good and charming. Love is kind. Love is caring. Love is patient. Love is gentle. God is love. You know the rest. Wait until you have fallen in and out of several relationship “successfully”,…
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Parenting Guide During Lockdown

Being a parent under normal circumstances is tough. Add to that the pressure of being a teacher plus full-time entertainer, and it’s next level. Lockdown has made us look at family differently. Spending all your time in a confined space can be challenging especially with bored kids who are relying on you for everything. It’s…
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Looking for the right one

If every man says he is different and not like the rest; but at the end, they all behave indifferent. If every girl thinks she is special; but at the end, they blame guys for not making them feel special. So every girl says, “all men are the same”, but I wonder how many men…
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Cry, Sometimes that’s all it takes

Let your pain out. Give room for your frustration to come out in tears, allow your heart to be warmed by this liquid. But never you lose your mind.

Love never fails, People do – Stay Motivated during COVID-19

One of the major propeller of havoc in relationships is absenteeism (the lack of paying attention and not listening).

Tribute to a Bosom Brother – Sulyman Luqman

Tribute to a bosom brother. Indeed, nothing challenges you more than stepping on a stone no one around you has ever stepped on. There is no other love like the love for a brother, and no other love like the love from a brother. If someone tells you it gets better with time, the person…
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Life Insurance: Own your life

Don’t spend the days of your life trying to prove to people who you are. Don’t let anyone own you, you deserve the right to own yourself. If it is your life, it is your right.

Some Lies About Love

The biggest lies about love that you may believe There isn’t a single formula or list of rules about love. Every relationship is unique and everyone behaves and relates to love in different ways. The base of any relationship is trust and respect, although there are many false (yet popular) ideas about how to love another person. According to Margarida Vieite, a specialist in family therapy at the University of Seville, many of these misleading ideas seem romantic, but in reality may actually…
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How to keep your relationship going

It is not uncommon, says Ammanda Major, head of clinical practice at Relate, for couples who come to therapy to say they love each other but that they’re not “in love” with each other. “Often in a longer-term relationship, the humdrumness of life has taken over their relationship,” she says. “And so, before you know…
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How Negativity Kills a Relationship

There’s an elegant symmetry to traditional wedding vows: for better or for worse. But love is not symmetrical, and most of us don’t realize how lopsided it can be. The worse matters far more than the better in marriage or any other relationship. That’s how the brain works. Our thoughts and feelings are skewed by…
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What age is best for having a baby?

Many women are delaying pregnancy until their 30s and 40s. This is no more hazardous than being in your 20s as long as you are fit and healthy. Whatever your age, you are likely to have a normal pregnancy and birth, although problems such as infertility and chromosomal defeats – for example, Down’s syndrome –…
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There is a difference between punishment and discipline. Punishment is good because it tells the child that actions have consequences. But punishment must lead to a point where a child can, on his own, choose not to misbehave. That point is called DISCIPLINE. A disciplined child can make the right choices unsupervised. Unfortunately, many times…
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Three Incredible Facts About Love

  I present to you Three Incredible Facts About Love. You know love is everything; love is everywhere. And importantly, everyone bears love in their heart. But true love lies in the heart of one person that is predestined for you. Here is how to get to know when you meet your true love: 1.…
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