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Develop Strength From What Ought to Weaken You

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“When the unexpected happens, what we have to do is simply to brace up ourselves and face it. No matter how devastating it could be, you can’t fear a battle you are not aware of. However, you withers at the instance you are aware of a battle and you failed to combat it. Healing comes when you get your mind off the pain and discover what you can do with it.”


Develop Strength From What Ought to Weakens You!
A happy life consists not in the absence, but in the mastery of hardships.” – Helen Keller


The essence of living is to be fulfilled and successful. Most of the time, if we we are truly going to be successful and fulfilled, we will have to experience trials and setbacks; and whatever we can bring out from those experiences will influence whom we would become in life. “It is in your moments of decision,” says Anthony Robbins, “that your destiny is shaped.”

We have experienced many things and what those things represent in our memories and how we are pondering on them influence our decisions in life and what grooms them. The simplest thing is this: We have gone through many things and some of them are horrible than what we can describe. We just have to be refined, furnished and fine-tuned from them and move on with life.

When the unexpected happens, what we have to do is simply to brace up ourselves and face it. No matter how devastating it could be, you can’t fear a battle you are not aware of. However, you withers at the instance you are aware of a battle and you failed to combat it. Healing comes when you get your mind off the pain and discover what you can do with it.

I understand this a few days ago when one woman I was selling newspapers for shares her testimonies with me. It happened that she fell ill and what ailed her was so serious and costing her her savings. After several diagnosis, medical personnel can only placed her on prescriptions with no certainty of what may ends it. She was in pain for several months, but she confessed that she was filled with hope that she would overcome.

One day, one of her friends called her to introduced a product – Rain Soul – to her. The person persuaded her to be taking the drugs and she would feel the difference in the way her body works and she would be healed. She found it difficult to believe it; but her curiosity to be healed and her faith prompted her to give the product a trial.

A few days after taken the first pill, she was feeling the difference in her body system and the ailment that has been tormenting her life was subsiding till she got rid of it!
This is the most amazing aspect of her story: After she recuperated, she started canvassing people to be taking that drugs and she found a source of income in it. She started growing her own network and today, her network has transcended imagination. She didn’t only went through what has to weaken her, she turned what was weakening her to strength.

It can also happen to you. Do you have anything you have considered as punishment or setback to your growth? Hold on, ask yourself this question: How do I approached this? It may be that you are exhibiting a sense of sympathy for yourself than you should, which is keeping you from shining the light from your darkest night. For those that died of natural death can only rest; those that are killed by circumstances never rest until they conquer the circumstances.

Till I comes your way next week,; remember, don’t let that thing overwhelmed you. You have been configured to overcome it!

©️ Sulyman Sodeeq Abdulakeem

Research and Content Manager

Victor I. Eshameh

The manager in-charge of research and content heads the department with the following sub-divisions – research unit, content creation unit, content management unit, design and graphics unit. Among other roles, the manager is hired to research, plan and implement programs; oversee research and content creation projects of clients and associates. “I write customer case studies for business, helping organisations capture their best customer stories to build customers’ trust and add credibility to their sales and marketing. I have also worked in positions such as market research, run affiliate marketing and customer representative system. I have helped businesses relate with other businesses and prospective clients.”